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Water, Weeping & Emotional Regulation through the Grieving Process

Water, Weeping & Emotional Regulation through the Grieving Process

Jul 23, 2023 | Earth, Nature, Water, Zen Buddhism

– Composed by Rebecca Bourhill, Edited by Glenn Nangaku Leisching

Introduction

In basic terms, trauma is an event or experience that creates extreme stress that overwhelms an individual’s ability to cope. It can be broken up into three parts: the event, what the person experienced, and the effects. These elements combined can describe trauma as an event, incident, occasion or a set of circumstances that is experienced by an individual as physically or emotionally harmful that has lasting effects on the individual’s functioning and mental, physical, social, emotional, or spiritual well-being. We will go into more depth on the effects of trauma in part two. It is helpful to keep in mind that what one may experience as trauma is often different from what another may see as trauma. There is often a story behind why an event was traumatic to an individual and it is important to keep this in mind when in the presence of someone that may be facing a challenging set of circumstances. Toward the end of the blog, we look at the water element and how shedding tears are vital for emotional regulation and to maintain homeostasis in the body.

The effects of trauma and the consequences of suppressing emotional pain

The effects of trauma can impact an individual in many areas affecting daily functioning. The effects are often what can be seen as a result of a set of circumstances or an event that has been experienced. Built-up and suppressed toxic stress from the event can cause further issues. The acute symptoms of trauma are not too unfamiliar to most of us. These can range from: anger, sadness, feeling out of control, feeling overwhelmed, anxiety, numbness, nausea, and extreme fatigue. If the acute trauma responses are not worked through effectively, delayed or suppressed responses can cause problems further on. These include but are not limited to depression, anxiety (including phobias), irritability, fear of the trauma reoccurring, brain fog, indecisiveness, the need to grieve, appetite changes, hyperarousal, consistent fatigue, auto-immune conditions and other long-term health effects.

An individual that has had any form of trauma occurs can find it challenging to regulate emotions. This is more evident in cases when the event has happened in childhood but can be the case at any age. If the trauma happens to an older individual that is fully functioning beforehand, it is said that the emotional regulation is not too long-lasting.

 

In short – trauma creates biological changes and stress responses in the body – specifically the limbic system and increases cortisol production (the harmful stress hormone). These changes are what is associated with mental health conditions and long-term health outcomes, and it is, therefore, important to find ways in which to release these overwhelming feelings. Medication for depression and anxiety together with therapy is the most widely known to help manage the symptoms. There are more natural ways, however, such as exercise, grieving loss, meditation, and mindfulness. There is one method though that has more negative connotations than it deserves. And that is the cathartic means of tears, grieving, and crying. From here on out we will look deeper into how shedding tears ties into the water element and can be beneficial to mind, body, and soul.

Benefits of weeping

Although tears trigger social bonding and connection, it is more than a visible shout for help. They detoxify the body, ridding itself of excess enzymes, lipids, metabolites, and electrolytes. Tears from emotional release are said to contain more proteins and consist of stress hormones (cortisol) and other toxins that continuous tears which are 98% water (responsible for lubricating the eyes) and reflex tears due to debris, dust, and smoke do not contain.

 

More research needs to be done but the possible reason for tears being so cathartic is their chemical composition. Along with the substances mentioned above, an extended period of weeping activates the parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest mode) and releases oxytocin and endorphins which are feel-good hormones. These ease both physical and emotional pain which can often be followed by a ‘numb’ state which could be put down to the calming effects of oxytocin.

Conclusion

It is clear that tears have a profound impact on our emotional and physical states. Rather than seeing crying as a sign of weakness, we should recognize their potential for healing and embrace their power to bring relief and release. By acknowledging the importance of the water element and the role of tears in our lives, we can better understand and support those who have experienced trauma and provide them with the compassion and empathy they need to heal.

 

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Communal Healing: How the Grieving Process Connects Community

Communal Healing: How the Grieving Process Connects Community

Jul 23, 2023 | Earth, Nature, Stone, Water, Zen Buddhism

– Composed by Rebecca Bourhill, Edited by Glenn Nangaku Leisching

Introduction

Communal Healing: How the Grieving Process Connects Community

Grief is an inherent part of the human experience, transcending cultural boundaries and affecting individuals and communities alike. In many societies, the process of healing from loss is deeply intertwined with communal support, offering solace, strength, and a shared space to navigate the intricate journey of grief. This article explores the significance of communal healing, focusing on the isiXhosa and isiZulu peoples of South Africa, as well as the ancient Dagara way of grieving in West Africa.

Understanding Grief: A Shared Human Experience

Grief is a complex emotional response triggered by the loss of a loved one, a relationship, or any significant change that disrupts our lives. It encompasses a wide range of emotions, including sadness, anger, confusion, and despair. While grief is a deeply personal experience, it also has communal dimensions. Humans have an inherent need for connection and support during times of loss, seeking solace from their community.

Grieving Traditions in isiXhosa Culture

The isiXhosa people, one of the largest ethnic groups in South Africa, have a rich cultural heritage that includes unique grieving traditions. In isiXhosa culture, grief is seen as a communal experience that involves the entire community. The grieving process often begins with a ritual known as “Ukuhlamba,” commonly referred to as The Healing Dance which is followed by A Cleansing Ceremony, The Welcoming of the Spirit, and finally The Communal Feast.

“Umbuyiso” (The Cleansing Ceremony)

During the Umbuyiso ceremony, the community gathers to cleanse the spirit of the deceased and prepare them for the journey to the afterlife. This cleansing ritual involves the use of traditional herbs, incense, and prayers, conducted by a spiritual leader or healer. The ceremony aims to release negative energy and facilitate the transition of the departed soul.

“Intwaso” (The Welcoming of the Spirit)

In the Intwaso ceremony, the community welcomes the spirit of the deceased back to their ancestral home. This ritual is performed to honor and show respect to the departed soul. The community gathers at the family homestead, where prayers, songs, and offerings are made. It is believed that the spirit of the deceased is present during this ceremony, offering comfort and guidance to their loved ones.

“Umgidi” (The Communal Feast)

The Umgidi feast is a vital part of the grieving process in isiXhosa culture. It serves as a way for the community to come together, share a meal, and support the grieving family. During the feast, stories are shared, laughter and tears intertwine, and the community demonstrates solidarity and care. The Umgidi feast provides a space for collective healing, where the burdens of grief can be shared and eased through connection and support.

The Grieving Process in isiZulu Culture

The isiZulu people, another prominent ethnic group in South Africa, also have unique traditions surrounding grief and communal healing. In isiZulu culture, grief is acknowledged as a collective experience, where the community plays an active role in supporting the bereaved. Similar to the isiXhosa, the isiZulu grieving process occurs in stages.

“Ukubuyiswa” (The Process of Calling Back)

In the isiZulu culture, the process of grieving begins with the ritual of Ukubuyiswa, which translates to “the process of calling back.” This ceremony is held to invite the spirit of the deceased to return home and be with their family. The community gathers at the family’s homestead, where songs, prayers, and offerings are made. Through this ritual, the community expresses their love and desire for the departed soul to find peace.

“Isithwalandwe” (The Unveiling Ceremony)

The Isithwalandwe ceremony is a significant milestone in the grieving process for isiZulu people. It marks the unveiling of the tombstone or memorial for the departed loved one. This event brings the community together, allowing them to pay their respects, share stories, and honor the memory of the deceased. The unveiling ceremony provides closure and a sense of finality, while also emphasizing the importance of community support during times of grief.

“Umemulo” (The Celebration of Life)

In isiZulu culture, Umemulo is a joyous celebration held after a specific period of mourning has passed. This ceremony serves as a commemoration of the deceased person’s life and a way to honor their memory. The community gathers to dance, sing, and share in the spirit of celebration. Umemulo acknowledges that life continues even after loss, emphasizing the resilience and strength found within the community.

The Ancient Dagara Way of Grieving

The Dagara people, an indigenous ethnic group from West Africa, have a profound understanding of grief as an integral part of the human experience. For the Dagara, grief is not viewed as a solitary journey but as a collective process involving the entire community. Though greater in distance from the isiXhosa and isiZulu, the Dagara’s grieving process also moves through very similar stages.

“The Vigil”

The Vigil is a central aspect of the Dagara grieving process. It involves the community coming together to create a sacred and safe space for the bereaved. During the Vigil, members of the community take turns keeping watch over the body of the deceased, ensuring that they are never alone. This practice symbolizes the commitment to support and care for the grieving family, fostering a sense of unity and compassion.

“The Ancestor Altar”

In Dagara culture, the Ancestor Altar is a physical representation of the spiritual connection between the living and the deceased. It is a sacred space adorned with photographs, personal items, and offerings dedicated to the ancestors. The community gathers around the altar to offer prayers, songs, and expressions of gratitude to their ancestors. This ritual serves as a reminder of the ongoing presence and guidance of those who have passed on, providing comfort and strength to the grieving community.

“The Healing Ceremony”

The Healing Ceremony is a transformative and cathartic experience in Dagara culture. It is a communal gathering where the community comes together to witness and support the bereaved in their journey toward healing. The ceremony involves storytelling, rituals, dancing, and drumming. Through these expressive practices, emotions are released, wounds are acknowledged, and the community collectively holds space for healing and transformation.

 

The Power of Communal Healing

Communal healing holds immense power in the process of grief. When individuals experience loss within a supportive community, they find solace and understanding in shared experiences. The collective empathy, compassion, and rituals provide a framework for navigating grief, allowing individuals to heal holistically. The presence of community lessens the burden of grief, offering comfort, connection, and a sense of belonging.

Creating a safe space for grief within a community is crucial. It requires open communication, non-judgmental attitudes, and a willingness to listen and validate the emotions of the bereaved. Through shared rituals and ceremonies, communities can collectively honor and remember the deceased, creating a sense of continuity and a bridge between the past, present, and future.

Cultural Exchange and Learning

Exploring different grieving traditions allows us to expand our understanding of the human experience and recognize the diversity of healing practices. Engaging in cross-cultural dialogue and learning fosters empathy, respect, and appreciation for the ways in which communities come together to support one another during times of loss. By embracing these diverse traditions, we gain insight into our shared humanity and find inspiration in the wisdom of ancient cultures.

Conclusion

Grief is a universal human experience, and communal healing is an integral part of the grieving process in many cultures. The isiXhosa and isiZulu peoples of South Africa, as well as the Dagara people of West Africa, exemplify the power of community support in navigating the intricate journey of grief. Through rituals, ceremonies, and shared experiences, these communities provide solace, connection, and a safe space for healing. By embracing and learning from these traditions, we can foster a more compassionate and supportive world for those who grieve.

FAQs

Are communal grieving practices limited to specific cultures?
No, communal grieving practices are found in various cultures worldwide. While the specific rituals and traditions may differ, the fundamental idea of community support during grief transcends cultural boundaries.

How can communal healing benefit individuals who are grieving?
Communal healing provides a support system that allows individuals to feel understood, validated, and not alone in their grief. It offers comfort, a safe space for expression, and a sense of belonging, which can aid in the healing process.

Are these grieving traditions still practiced today?
Yes, many communities continue to practice their traditional grieving rituals and ceremonies. These traditions hold significant cultural and spiritual value, and they continue to provide comfort and support to those who have experienced loss.

Journeying through Eons: Intergenerational Healing – The Ancestral Connection

Journeying through Eons: Intergenerational Healing – The Ancestral Connection

Jun 27, 2023 | Fire, Zen Buddhism

– Composed by Duane Steffens and Glenn Nangaku Leisching

Introduction

In the tapestry of our lives, we are woven together by the threads of our ancestors. Their experiences, wisdom, and traumas shape who we are today. This intricate connection between generations holds immense power, allowing us to embark on a transformative journey of healing and self-discovery. In this article, we will explore the profound interplay between intergenerational healing, ancestral connection, and the ancient practice of shamanism.

Understanding Shamanism

Shamanism, rooted in ancient traditions and cultures, is a spiritual practice that bridges the physical and spiritual realms. Shamans, the custodians of this wisdom, have been revered as healers, seers, and mediators between the human and spirit worlds. Shamanic practices vary across different cultures but often involve rituals, ceremonies, and communing with the natural world and the other world using divination.

The Power of Ancestral Connection

  • Ancestral connection holds immense power as it allows us to tap into the wisdom, experiences, and guidance of our ancestors.
  • Through connecting with our ancestors, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves, our roots, and our place in the world.
  • Ancestral communication can provide healing and transformation by addressing intergenerational wounds and patterns that have been passed down through generations.
  • Honoring and nurturing our ancestral connection allows us to cultivate a sense of belonging, support, and guidance as we navigate life’s challenges.

Our connection to our ancestors stretches far beyond the boundaries of time. We carry their memories, beliefs, and genetic imprints within us. Through this deep bond, we can access their wisdom, guidance, and even their unhealed wounds. Acknowledging and embracing this connection allows us to heal not only ourselves but also the generations that came before and those that will follow.

Indigenous Wisdom

Indigenous cultures hold a wealth of wisdom that encompasses intergenerational healing. These cultures have cultivated a deep understanding of the interconnectedness of all beings and the importance of maintaining harmony with the natural world. Indigenous healing practices often involve rituals, ceremonies, and the use of medicinal plants to restore balance and well-being.

Intergenerational Healing

Intergenerational healing is a deeply transformative process that acknowledges the interplay between our personal experiences and the wounds inherited from our ancestors. These wounds, rooted in the collective history of our lineage, can manifest as trauma, emotional patterns, or limiting beliefs that impact our lives. By shining a light on these ancestral imprints and bringing them into conscious awareness, we gain the opportunity to release their hold on us. Through introspection, healing modalities, and self-reflection, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and liberation. With each step taken, we create a ripple effect, not only transforming our own lives but also contributing to the healing and well-being of future generations.

By engaging in the process of intergenerational healing, we break free from the cycles of pain and suffering that have been perpetuated across time. As we delve into the depths of our ancestral lineage, we uncover hidden narratives and unhealed wounds that have shaped our existence. Through this exploration, we develop a profound understanding of the interconnectedness of our experiences with those of our ancestors. With awareness as our guiding force, we can consciously choose to release the burdens that no longer serve us and transform the energy of ancestral wounds. By embracing this transformative path, we not only reclaim our own lives but also contribute to the collective healing and evolution of our lineage.

Shamanism and Ancestral Healing

Shamanism offers profound tools for intergenerational healing. Shamans can guide individuals in accessing the realms beyond the physical and connecting with their ancestors. Through shamanic rituals and ceremonies, deep healing can occur as the energy of ancestral wounds is released and transformed. These practices provide a sacred space for individuals to navigate their own healing journey while also honoring the wisdom and experiences of their ancestors.

Born as the Earth Zen School, for example, is a contemporary school of higher learning that teaches indigenous wisdom and perfected ‘technologies’ for communicating with your ancestors.

The Journey of Healing Ancestral Inheritance

To embark on the path of intergenerational healing, one must be willing to dive into the depths of their ancestral lineage. This journey requires courage, vulnerability, and a genuine desire to heal. Seeking guidance from shamans, spiritual healers, or ancestral practitioners can provide invaluable support and insights. They can help navigate the complexities of ancestral connection and guide individuals in reclaiming their personal power.

The Transformative Power of Shamanism

Countless individuals have experienced profound transformation through shamanic practices. By confronting and healing ancestral wounds, they have found liberation, inner peace, and a deeper connection to their true selves. Shamanism not only benefits individuals but also has the potential to catalyze positive change within communities. By healing ourselves, we create ripples that extend far beyond our own lives.

Embracing Ancestral Connection in Everyday Life

Integrating ancestral practices into our daily lives allows us to honor and nurture our connection to our ancestors. Simple rituals, such as lighting candles, creating altars, or practicing meditation, can serve as bridges between the seen and unseen worlds. These practices remind us of our lineage and provide a sense of belonging and support as we navigate life’s challenges.

Overcoming Challenges in Intergenerational Healing

The path of intergenerational healing is not without its challenges. As we dive deeper into our ancestral wounds, we may encounter resistance, discomfort, or even ancestral patterns that attempt to keep us stuck. It is essential to approach these hurdles with compassion and perseverance, seeking support when needed. The healing journey is not linear, but every step taken brings us closer to wholeness.

Indigenous Wisdom in Intergenerational Healing

Indigenous cultures possess profound wisdom when it comes to intergenerational healing. They recognize the interconnectedness of all beings and the sacredness of the land. Through their traditional knowledge, rituals, and ceremonies, indigenous communities offer valuable insights into healing ancestral wounds and restoring harmony within ourselves and the world around us. By incorporating indigenous nature based wisdom into our healing practices, we can deepen our understanding of intergenerational healing and honour the wisdom of those who have come before us.

Conclusion

Journeying through time, we discover the transformative power of intergenerational healing and ancestral connection. As we embrace our ancestral lineage, we tap into a wellspring of wisdom and healing potential. Shamanism, with its ancient practices and profound teachings, serves as a guiding light on this transformative path. By integrating intergenerational healing, indigenous wisdom, and shamanic practices into our lives, we can embark on a profound journey of self-discovery, healing, and connection.

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FAQs

1) What is intergenerational healing?
Intergenerational healing is the process of recognizing and addressing ancestral wounds passed down through generations. It involves healing not only ourselves but also the generations that came before and those that will follow.

2) How does shamanism support intergenerational healing?
Shamanic practices provide powerful tools for healing ancestral wounds. By connecting with the spirit world and engaging in shamanic rituals, individuals can release and transform the energy of ancestral trauma, facilitating intergenerational healing.

3)How can I incorporate ancestral practices into my daily life?
You can honor and nurture your ancestral connection by incorporating simple rituals into your daily routine. Lighting candles, creating altars, or practicing meditation are all ways to stay connected with your lineage and receive guidance from your ancestors.

4) What challenges might arise during the intergenerational healing process?
The path of intergenerational healing can be challenging, as ancestral patterns and resistance may surface. It is important to approach these challenges with compassion, seek support when needed, and continue the healing journey with perseverance.

5) How can intergenerational healing create positive change in communities?
By healing ourselves and breaking free from ancestral patterns, we contribute to the collective healing of our communities. Our transformed energy and empowered presence have the potential to inspire and uplift others, creating positive change on a broader scale.

Meditate on your DNA – Predispositions & Epigenetics.

Meditate on your DNA – Predispositions & Epigenetics.

Jun 27, 2023 | Earth, Fire, Zen Buddhism

– Composed by Rebecca Bourhill and Glenn Nangaku Leisching

Introduction

Is it Nature or Nurture, or both? What is the interplay between your future of pure-potential, and the fixed limitations encoded in your memories and DNA? In this blog we explore recent research into how your genes respond to their environment. Research suggests your genes can be influenced to express themselves optimally, or not at all. Healthy behaviours (such as meditation) can slow, even stop, the ticking time-bomb of a potentially life-threatening genetic inheritance from your ancestors.

Defining predispositions and epigenetics?

Throughout the article, the term predisposition describes an individual’s increased risk of getting a condition based on their genetic makeup that has been inherited from their parents and their ancestral lineage.

These conditions range from heart disease, cancer, diabetes, obesity, – the list goes on.

Epigenetics refers to how your behaviour and environmental factors sets the scene, consequently affecting the way your genes express themselves. Epigenetics, broadly speaking controls gene activity without changing the DNA itself.

‘Epi-’ Greek for above. The term ‘epigenetic’ are factors that are ‘above’ or beyond the genetic code – external factors. Epigenetics is the study of how influences or modifications directed at your DNA regulate whether a gene is activated or not. These changes, in the form of chemicals, attach to the DNA genome, creating a ‘tag’. This tag – called the epigenome – does not change your genetic sequence itself. Rather, the epigenome affects the expression of your genes.

The good news is therefore, that because epigenomes (and their affect on gene expression) are influenced by lifestyle factors, chemical exposure and medication – all of which are controllable. Therefore, you can have a profound affect of your genetic expression!

The ‘hardware’ and ‘software’ in your genetic field

Let’s use the metaphor of yourself as a computer consisting of hardware and software. Your genome – what makes you, you – would be considered ‘hardware’…the unchangeable, inherited, part of yourself – your predispositions for different conditions and physical characteristics.

Now, what is exciting is that you have the ability to turn these gene predispositions ‘on’ or ‘off’ using lifestyle choices, or in keeping with the computer metaphor, ‘installing’ the correct, useful ‘software’ or ‘programs’ to create a positive outlook and keep harmful genes dormant.

Not only can you nurture or cultivate positive ancestral predispositions, you have the ability to dial the volume down on all the negative potential in your inherited nature.

The opposite is also true. Installing harmful ‘software’ will increase your chances of triggering genes that are potentially dangerous or life-threatening. Studies are showing that epigenetic changes (that are altered by lifestyle factors) can be passed on from generation to generation.

This essentially means the buck can stop with you! The changes you make today will influence the health of future generations.

Nature & Nurture: Influencing the outcome of predispositions

Identical twins, for example, inherit the same DNA, however, they can turn out to be vastly different from one another. At the age of say 55 one can get heart disease while the other can be running marathons in perfect health. Part of the answer to this lies in the way they have nurtured their genetic make-up by turning certain genes on or off.

Nature would be the genes the twins inherited – what has been passed down to them from previous generations. Nurturing is how one feeds or starves these genes. In one’s external world, pollutants, chemical exposure, diet and personal lifestyle choices encourage positive changes and impact on the epigenome. Your holistic choices in the form of dietary changes, increased exercise, stress reduction through meditation, and habitual changes, big or small, can determine which path your health takes.

A relatable example of smoking can be used to illustrate. If you have a predisposition for cancer you turn the cancer gene ‘on’ by feeding the fire. However, stopping the habit of cigarette use can immediately start reversing the damage caused. A similar model can be applied to sugar addiction with those who have a predisposition for obesity or diabetes.

Meditation: Between stimulus and response there is an opportunity!

Meditation can have a significant influence on your epigenetics.

The practice of Zen meditation for example, creates a moment of consciousness and space between whatever the stimulation may be and your habitual response. In the smoking example: the stimulus or trigger could be stress at work or a negative emotional experience. Often a smoker’s immediate response to the trigger or stress is to have a cigarette. The practice of Zen meditation develops mindfulness – awareness of unconscious, patterned behaviour. This awareness has the power to momentarily interrupt the stimulus-response cycle and affords youf the opportunity to choose a healthier, more empowered and self-aware response to the stress or what triggers you.

Conclusion

A daily morning practice of meditation sets the scene for the rest of your day and exercises your mindfulness muscles. In a highly charged situation taking a ‘mindful-minute’ helps you become present and aware of the trigger (stimulus) before immediately responding. Mindfulness can take the form of grounding yourself either through following the breath in and out and feeling the sensations in the body of your breath, or feeling your feet on the ground.

Beside the many other benefits of meditation and mindfulness, their practice gives you an opportunity to reprogram your software to make unscious behaviour more conscious thereby allowing time to consider whether your habitual response is helpful or harmful. Meditation supports these little pauses and provides the necessary space that help enhance positive behaviour or break negative programming which have a significant influence on the expression of your genes.

References

Nerlich, B. 2018. Epigenetics: Grappling with definitions.

Epigenetics: Grappling with definitions

Centres for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). 2022. What are Epigenetics?

Guerrrero-Bosagna, C. 2017. TED-ed. What is Epigenetics?. YouTube.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aAhcNjmvhc

Diving into Dreams: Different Types of Dreams and their Benefit

Diving into Dreams: Different Types of Dreams and their Benefit

Jun 27, 2023 | Fire, Zen Buddhism

– Composed by Duane Steffens and Glenn Nangaku Leisching

Introduction

Dreams are a fascinating aspect of human consciousness. They occur during the rapid eye movement (REM) stage of sleep and can provide valuable insights into our subconscious mind. Dreams encompass a wide range of experiences, from pleasant fantasies to terrifying nightmares. They hold a significant place in various cultures and have been the subject of study and interpretation throughout history.

Many indigenous cultures would rely on dreams which they considered to be insights or wisdom from the Other World in order to navigate in this world. With consistency, nature-based wisdom cultures considered the waking world to be the dream world, and the dream world to be the real world. Restoring alignment and synergy between these realms was essential to maintain harmony and abundance.

Types of Dreams

Scattered Visual Dreams

Scattered visual dream are just that, random repeat reflections in the mind of the dreamer as the dreamer releases the energy or experiences of their day. These dreams have little interpretive significance or importance but they are a result of a vital function in the mind and body of the dreamer.

To restore homeostasis (balance and rest), your mind and body collaborate to release energy stored from the ordinary events or preoccupations from your day. We know they are scattered dreams because the randomness of the collage of meaningless tell no story.

Lucid Dreams

Lucid dreams are dreams in which the dreamer is aware that they are dreaming. It is a unique state of consciousness where individuals can actively participate and control their dream scenarios. Lucid dreaming allows for creativity, exploration, and even problem-solving within the dream realm.

Lucid dreams make a person feel magical and all powerful the next day – like anything can be accomplished if life were only as fluid as the dream-world (which it can be).

Prophetic Dreams

Prophetic dreams are dreams that seemingly predict future events or provide insights into situations yet to occur. While the true nature of prophetic dreams remains a topic of debate, many people have reported experiencing dreams that later come true in some form or another.

These dreams are highly symbolic and, upon waking, leave you feeling like something deeply important has been communicated. They are felt in you body, mind, emotions and in the spirit.

Nightmares

Nightmares are unsettling dreams that evoke fear, anxiety, or distress. They often involve terrifying or threatening situations, and upon waking, they can leave individuals feeling shaken. Nightmares may be caused by various factors, such as stress, trauma, or certain medications.

Usually one wakes from nightmares feeling frightened, exhausted, and frustrated. They have a residue in the body, felt in your tiredness. You would experienced the next morning with hyper-alertness in the mind.

 

Recurring Dreams

Recurring dreams are dreams that repeat themselves with similar themes, settings, or events. These dreams often signify unresolved issues, unaddressed emotions, or persistent patterns in a person’s life. Exploring recurring dreams can provide valuable insights into the subconscious mind.

At first recurring dreams can have little impact. After several experiences of the same theme in a dream, they can become frustrating and beckon to us a sort of challenge. One feels these dreams with a sense of confusion, anticipation and mystery in the mind as well as increased frustration.

Healing Dreams

Healing dreams are dreams that aid in the process of emotional, mental, or physical healing. They can offer solace, guidance, and resolution to individuals who are struggling with challenges in their waking lives. Healing dreams may provide comfort, clarity, or inspiration, facilitating a sense of well-being and growth.

You will know you’ve had a healing dreams by the emotion you feel when you wake up from a dream like this. Usually, the dreamer feels cleansed of some toxic energy, or experiences a heightened sense of joy, grief or relief. We feel these dreams in our bodies as a significant emotional moment.

Dreams and Intergenerational Healing

Intergenerational healing refers to the process of healing ancestral wounds or traumas that have been passed down through generations. Dreams can play a crucial role in this healing journey. Through dreams, individuals may receive messages or insights that shed light on unresolved issues within their family lineage. By acknowledging and addressing these issues, individuals can break free from negative patterns and create a more positive future for themselves and future generations.

For example, a person might have a dream about a deceased family member who experienced trauma in their lifetime. This dream could serve as an invitation to explore and heal the generational impact of that trauma, bringing about a sense of closure and release.

Dreams as Patterns and Trauma Indicators

Dreams have a way of reflecting the patterns that shape our lives. They can reveal repetitive behaviors, thoughts, or emotions that may go unnoticed in our waking state. By paying attention to these patterns in our dreams, we can gain valuable insights into ourselves and make positive changes.

Moreover, dreams can serve as indicators of unresolved trauma. When we experience trauma, our subconscious mind may utilize dreams as a means of processing and integrating the traumatic experiences. Recognizing and working with these dreams can be a vital part of the healing journey.

The Healing Power of Dream Communication

“A dream is a personal myth. A myth is a collective dream.” – Joseph Campbell

Dreams provide a unique opportunity for communication. They allow us to connect with others on a deeper emotional level. Sharing our dreams with trusted individuals can lead to emotional release, understanding, and support. By openly discussing our dreams, we foster a sense of connection and create a safe space for vulnerability and growth.

Sharing your dreams invites others into your dream. You might find that those you share your dreams with have a role to play in the ‘collective, communal dream’.

Opening up and Expressing in Dreams

Dreams offer a safe haven for emotional expression. In dreams, we can experience a range of emotions, including joy, sorrow, fear, or love, without the constraints of the waking world. Engaging with these emotions in dreams allows for self-reflection and introspection, promoting personal growth and self-awareness.

Dreams can also inspire artistic expression. Many artists, writers, musicians, and filmmakers have drawn inspiration from their dreams, creating works that touch and resonate with audiences on a profound level. Dreams can unlock a wellspring of creativity and serve as a gateway to unexplored realms of imagination.

Dream Interpretation and its Benefits

Dream interpretation involves analyzing the symbols, themes, and emotions present in dreams to gain a deeper understanding of their meanings. It is a tool that can aid in self-discovery, personal growth, and problem-solving. While individual symbols may have different meanings for each person, exploring the symbolism in dreams can provide valuable insights into our subconscious desires, fears, and aspirations.

While some people may enjoy interpreting their dreams on their own, others may seek guidance from professionals, such as psychotherapists to unravel the deeper messages within their dreams. Professional guidance can help individuals navigate complex symbolism and gain a more comprehensive understanding of their dreams’ significance.

Glenn Nangaku Leisching is a dream analyst and has been working with dreams since the age of 7. He helps clients understand the hidden meaning of their dreams – the waking dream they’re aspiring toward (or the nightmare they are trying to escape from). He facilitates and teaches the dream interpretive process assisting the dreamer call-in meaningful dreams and become their own dream analyst and code-breaker.

Conclusion

Dreams are an integral part of the human experience, offering a gateway to our subconscious mind and a realm of infinite possibilities. They come in various forms, each with its unique significance and potential for healing and growth. By embracing the power of dreams, we can embark on a journey of self-discovery, intergenerational healing, and personal transformation.

FAQs

1) Can anyone have lucid dreams?
Yes, anyone can experience lucid dreams with practice and awareness. Techniques such as reality checks and keeping dream journals can increase the likelihood of having lucid dreams.

2) What should I do if I have recurring nightmares?
If you have recurring nightmares, it may be helpful to explore the underlying emotions or unresolved issues that they represent. Consider seeking support from a therapist or dream specialist who can guide you through the process of understanding and working with your nightmares.

3) Are all dreams meaningful?
While all dreams have some level of significance, not all dreams are equally impactful or profound. Some dreams may be simple reflections of our daily experiences, while others may carry deeper messages and insights. It’s important to pay attention to recurring themes, intense emotions, and vivid imagery in order to uncover the potential meanings behind your dreams.

4) Is dream interpretation subjective?
Yes, dream interpretation is subjective to some extent. Symbols and meanings can vary depending on an individual’s personal experiences, cultural background, and subconscious associations. It’s important to explore your own feelings and associations with dream symbols to find interpretations that resonate with you.

5) How can I improve my dream recall?
Keeping a dream journal and writing down your dreams as soon as you wake up can significantly improve dream recall. Additionally, practicing relaxation techniques, getting sufficient sleep, and maintaining a consistent sleep schedule can enhance your ability to remember your dreams.